No More Excuses

Well, I have no more excuses for not losing weight.

I have a gym membership, workout videos, exercise equipment at home, and my running.  I have access to exercise almost everywhere now.

I crafted a plan for my exercise.  I have the flexibility to change it when life throws another curve ball.

To curb my consumption of empty calories, I bought Crystal Light to replace the sweet drinks I’m addicted to.  I’m slowly switching back to fresh tasting and clean water. I have my food journal with me.  All I need to do is start cooking healthy.

The eating plan needs work but what I have now is much better than what I had yesterday.

I can do this.  I will do this.

Posted in Health, Weight Loss | 4 Comments

GO! St. Louis Marathon Relay

Matt and I finally met Jenn and Ash Sunday morning. They walked from their place to our hotel. We chatted for a few minutes about stuff and the GO! St. Louis Marathon Relay. We decided that Ash take the first leg, Jenn take the second, I run the third, and Matt finishes the race for us. They headed to the starting line while Matt and I jogged around the Jefferson National Expansion Memorial.  It’s amazing how social media can connect strangers with common interests.

We returned to our hotel room after our jog.  We planned on taking a short nap before heading to the relay station but I was too antsy. We arrived at relay station #2. Matt looked bored and I felt guilty dragging him here.  I think he was concerned that he didn’t know how and when to warm up for his part of the race.  Ash found us wearing our blue Buffs. We waited for Jenn. I was afraid of missing my hand off with Jenn because it was so crowded at the relay station.  Both of them told me not to worry. I didn’t realize she took the longest leg.

We saw someone purple sparkly running towards us.  It was Jenn!  We got up, Mat and Ash cheered.  I just wanted to get out on the road.  I gave Jenn water and she handed me the timing bib.  Off I went.  I thought the weather was perfect standing there but on the road, it kicked my ass.  The heat and humidity took its toll and forced me to ease my pace.  It was a blessing as it gave me the time to enjoy the Forest Park and University City area.  It’s a very attractive area of St. Louis.  It’s another reason to visit the Lou again.  The hills weren’t as bad as I expected.  I felt the race I ran in March was a bit more brutal to this flat-lander.

At every aid station I took water and soaked myself in water.  I didn’t want to overheat.  I learned that lesson at the Illinois Marathon.  It wasn’t towards the final mile of my portion of the marathon, I started to wonder when I’ll see the trio. The heat didn’t destroy me but I didn’t want to get there.  I finally saw Matt and yelled that I pulled a Janet Jackson.  I accidentally had a wardrobe malfunction and pulled the belt apart.  I left I handed off the relay bib to Matt.  After I finished my leg, I felt miserable.  I didn’t know how miserable I was until I finished.  My brain was not function correctly.  My eyes weren’t registering light correctly.  I felt blank.  I’m so happy Matt left me some Sharkies to eat.  The heat kicked my ass.

Ash, Jenn, and I took the Metro Link to the final relay station.  We just got there just in time. Matt looked like all business when we saw him.  In fact, we were barely keeping up.  We crossed the finish line.  The finisher shoot was unusually long, winding, and desolate.  I wish they made it more compact so we can get our water, food, and immediately.  I hope they fix that next year. Matt looked like he was about to die after the race.  He told us he was trying to hunt down another runner to beat.  He and his GPS heart rate monitor confessed that he did sub-8:00 minute miles for two of his five miles.  Crazy.

Team Runner’s High Five finished in 4:42:37.

After the race, Jenn and Ashley invited us to Ashley’s home bar, Llywelyn’s Pub, in Soulard. We agreed to meet up with them after we check out of the hotel.  In the Soulard area, I was SOOO happy that they had easy street parking.  At Llwelyn’s, we talked about the race, future races, their neighborhood. I ordered a Llywelyn’s burger with rarebit.  Whatever is in rarebit is good.  It’s took hard to describe except it tasting good.  Matt and I  slowly recovered by drinking lots of water do to a six hour drive home. The girls did their part by drinking the spirited beverages.

The marathon relay proved to be an enjoyable time and I loved listening and watching Jenn and Ash interact.  It turned out Matt really enjoyed doing the relay.  I definitely want to head back to St. Louis to explore its streets.  I expect to catch a Cards game in Busch Stadium, visit the Budweiser brewery, check out a few restaurants, and photograph the neighborhoods I ramble through.  Would I run in St. Louis again?  Yes.  It’s a great course to run as a visitor and for someone that wants to do their nifty fifty. I’d definitely do it again if I do the nifty fifty.

Photos: @AshleyJane36

Posted in Race Recap | 3 Comments

Losing Weight

Losing weight is a simple concept. A person creates a slight calorie deficit by eating nutrient dense low calorie diet and exercise. Although the concept is simple, most of us struggle to lose the excess weight. There are a lot of reasons.  Some of us do not know where to begin.  Others falter when it comes to nutrition and calories.  Another group claims they hate exercise.  The are so many reason why we struggle but there are also many ways to let us thrive.

Nutrition and Diet

The calorie deficit begins with what we take into our system.  Food is a fuel to give us energy and rebuild our bodies.  There are many resources online to help you determine what you need to consume and how much to consume.

There are plenty of online resources available.  The U.S. government has a great website to get you started at Nutrition.gov. This site provides a wealth of knowledge on food and nutrition. Many hospital websites such as Mayo Clinic that provides excellent information.  There are a few really good blogs out there that talk about nutrition.  I suggest getting your learning on at nutrition.gov and other reputable sites first so you can identify the quality blogs from the not so quality blogs.  Finally, check out your local library. They also have an assortment of books on health, weight loss, and nutrition.

If you need a pre-prepared plans an guidance, there are a lot of services to look into.  My friends have had success with Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, and Seattle Suttons.  I’m a big of Weight Watchers because of the group meetings and the fact that they teach you the tools to keep the weight off without holding a person’s hand too much.

I use a food log on and off since I started running seriously.  I’ve been very successful when I’ve used it.  I was not so successful when I didn’t use it.  My only sticking point has been my at home nutrition and diet because I don’t cook and rely on delicious food from my mom or dining out.  This are going to change this year.  I’m slowly starting to cook more often. The recipes I am using are from fellow bloggers and recipe books.  It’s important to learn how to cook or find healthy options.  I’ve found cooking at home much better at controlling my intake and keeping my taste buds happy.  I’m able to modify my favorite foods to taste good while keeping the calories low.

Exercise

Exercise is another essential part of losing weight.  In addition to aiding in the calorie deficit, it also tones and sculpts the body into a lovely shape.  Everyone is different and everyone enjoys different things.  I love running but running might now be suited for another person.  A person needs to find exercise that that is enjoyable or at the very least, bearable.  Heck, sometimes people grow to love the exercise they find bearable. It can be anything, walking, swimming, cycling, weight lifting or playing a team sport.

Sticking and committing to a plan is vitally important.  Whenever I don’t have a plan or goal in mind, my exercise decreases significantly.  During my first marathon, I used Hal Higdon’s training guides online. (Which reminds me, I need to thank him by purchasing his books.) There are a lot of free and fee based plans out there for the cyclist, triathlete, first time runner, etc.  It just takes time and effort to find the right one for the individual.  Beachbody, the makers of P90X, Insanity, TurboJam, and TurboFire, sells an assortment of great systems to get a person stronger, leaner, and healthier.  I’m a huge fan of their stuff because a person doesn’t have to waste time piecing together a exercise and nutrition plan on their own.  I think it’s a huge time saver.

Mindset

I think the biggest challenge is setting the right mindset to successfully lose weight.  Getting a goal down requires patience and determination.  Let’s face it. There are a lot of temptations out there to steer us away from an exercise session or healthy diet.

Our inner voice also affects our weight loss. Negative self-talk demoralizes us. Self-fulfilling prophecies come true. Each of us grew up recording the voices around us and some of them repeat consistently either lifting us up and pulling us down.

Losing weight also requires us to challenge ourselves to think differently and push ourselves slightly out of our comfort zone. We’re stretching ourselves and it’ll be frustrating. In the end, it becomes easy and second nature if we stick with it.

Patience is a precious commodity important on a weight loss journey.  I didn’t gain this weight overnight.  I can’t expect to lose weight overnight.

There are many blogs that can help you keep the proper mindset. Everyday people are losing weight without being on television shows and keeping it off. Within a year, Cubicle Dad lost over one hundred pounds before running his first marathon.  I slowly lost forty pounds over the course of three years. (And much more to lose!) We see the trials, triumphs, and tribulations of others.  We become inspired by others.  I follow them on Twitter and check out their blog posts.

Another tool that has helped me is a book called “Self Esteem” by Michael McKay.  A psychologist gave it to me and has proved to be a very helpful.  Again, there are many other books out there that can help your inner you become healthy so your outer you gets healthy.

Most Importantly

Every person is different and shouldn’t compare weight loss to another.  Men lose weight differently then women.  Age is another factor.  The nutrition needs are different for everyone.  Science does its best to generalize but it still  a very individual process.  It’s best to start with a base and modify it according to your needs.

There are many reasons we struggle but there are many simple strategies to help up lose weight.  There are many variables that are added to this simple process. However, with the right tools, we can reach our goal to lose weight and get healthy.

Posted in Health, Weight Loss | Leave a comment

Great Fit 180 Challenge

I invited a few of my friends to the Great Fit 180 Challenge.  I challenged them to work on making their life a little better in 180 days by turning things in they’re life around. I want us to focus our energy on working towards making our life fit better with the dreams and aspirations we have for ourselves.

For 180 days we will dream, plan, and live the life we want to live.  Each of us will take that grand dream, break it down into small achievable projects and build that dream. My two goals for the next 180 days are to push closer to qualifying for Boston and to substantially increase my income and savings.

After my first marathon, I started thinking about Boston.  This is the year to make some strides and act upon this desire.  I need to make progress by leaps and bounds this year.  Aiming high isn’t setting myself up for failure.  It’s setting myself to reach higher and not to settle.  For the average athlete, qualifying for the Boston Marathon is the prize to shoot for. This entails me finally finishing my weight loss journey and start focusing on getting stronger, faster, and better.

I removed a substantial amount of my bad debt by tapping into my hard earned savings and investments.  I decided to do this after two years of little movement in my balances.  Everything I threw did nothing.  Dipping into my savings opened up my cash flow and freed me from the burden of debt.  Now it’s time to save again and invest in myself.

To keep me accountable, my peers and I have a private group on Facebook that I report to.  I also set up a blog that I’ll update daily so people can follow my progress. I’m ready to put my energy into this challenge and make substantial progress in my life.

Do you want to challenge yourself to reach for your dream?  In the comments section below, tell us your dream and why you want change your life to fit into that dream.

Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment

How to Become Wealthy (Again)

My mom taught my brothers and I well.  She taught us how to be wealthy. Compared to most of her peers, she on her way to a good retirement.  She made time and money to do things that she enjoys and what is important to her. We’re a very middle class family.  She’s a registered nurse.  My father is a non-union factory worker.  They’re doing more than just alright.

I learned a lot from her and started on the right path.  However, I fumbled more than a few times along the way and drifted away from my good habits.  I spent time with people with bad habits (good people but bad habits) and I started losing good habits only to pick up bad ones. It was a long process but I finally started shedding bad habits and started relearning those old good habits that saved my financial butt.

Here’s what I learned from my mom.

  1. Live well while living below your means and within your needs.
  2. Use debt wisely.
  3. Invest in YOUR human capital.
  4. Increase your income.
  5. Pay yourself first (Save and Invest).
  6. Keep It Simple Silly!
  7. Lead.  Don’t be a follower.

She taught me by living a financially wise life.  The wisdom she bestowed upon my brothers and I is timeless wisdom that fills stacks of books at the library.  She kept it simple. She followed the formula.  She lived it.  She didn’t spend years in college learning this.  It was just something she picked up.

After reading the book “The Millionaire Next Door” by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko, she’s not alone.  There are many Americans building their wealth quietly without all the coverage we see the media shower upon the glitz show boaters.

I’m working on being wealthy again by taking one step at a time. Each step builds moment to make the pace quicker. My first step was eliminating bad debt.  My next step is to start saving again. Soon enough, I’ll be running on the path to financial wealth.

What did you decide to change and what steps are you taking to make your financial life better?

Posted in Uncategorized | 5 Comments

Birthday Week is Coming!

Birthday begins with a weekend of fun, joy, and celebration and ends with two days of running to complete the I-Challenge at the Illinois Marathon.  On my birthday, I run a 5k. A half marathon follows the next day. In between, I’ll be keeping myself busy.  I haven’t decided what I’ll be doing since this will be my first time doing something like this.  Does anyone out on the interweb have any ideas for birthday week?

I also want to get something grand, something beautiful between now and birthday week. I need a nice present I’d make for myself. Wouldn’t it be nice to get give myself a gift that allows me to live my life better?  With that in mind, I and challenging myself to push the envelope and attain a part of the larger dream I have for myself. My goals for between now and my birthday are to 1. eliminate 10 pounds and 2. reduce my debt by another $600.  One leads me to better health and the other give me more financial independence.

I need to control my eating and start training consistently to lose 10 pounds by birthday. To reduce my debt, I need to live below my means and live within my needs.  Both are easily achievable IF I remain patient and focused. To keep me honest, I’m tossing up a new blog to leave raw and unedited daily updates of my progress or lack thereof.

I still don’t know what I should do to during birthday week besides a my races in Champaign.  If you have any ideas, please leave a comment below!

photo by: jamieanne

Posted in Live Life | 2 Comments

Hillstrider’s March Madness Half Marathon Recap

The March Madness Half Marathon is one of those local races that you hear nothing but good things about.  It’s known to close it’s registration in less than a day.  It’s a well organized race with the perfect amount of runners (capped at 1000?) and at an amazing price ($40).  I had to run this race. The moment registration opened, I registered.  Good thing I did.  A little bit after 6a, registration closed.  Eat your heart out Boston.

Goals

I wanted to evaluate where I am, not to establish a new PR, and work on my pace. Running at an even pace helps conserve energy for the last leg of the race.  It’s a good tool to reach greater heights.  An even pace develops patience and restraint so I don’t do something stupid or do something brilliant. I needed to evaluate my fitness on this challenging Northern Illinois course after being sidelined for a month and having a poor debut at the Korteloppet.  I wanted to know what I needed to get done this year to avoid the mishaps of last year’s marathon and makes strides. Finally, I don’t want to fall in the PR trap.  When a new runner starts racing, personal bests come regularly because great fitness improvements from just getting off the couch. Sooner or later, the personal bests become more difficult to obtain. New goals need to be made that focuses on a bigger picture.  The bigger picture is tuning my body so I can control and manage my mind and body during a race.

The Race

The race started at 8:35a.  It began to rain at 8:36a. Showers persisted until mile four.  It took a break and started pouring around mile seven. It’s a beautiful hilly course where the suburbs meet the countryside.  Yes, there are hills an hour from the Chicago area.  They are rolling hills capable of frustrating someone who runs nearly exclusively on the Chicago Lakefront Path.  Most of the hills were gentle.  Others were not so gentle.  Surprisingly, the hills didn’t frustrated me.  It was the weather that beat on my brain.

So I can to this race to work on my pacing.  Here are the results from my watch.

  1. 9:06.6 – I completed my first mile exactly on goal.
  2. 8:17.4 – I think the excitement of completing my goal during the first mile got me too excited.
  3. 8:40.4 – I’m still adjusting my speed.
  4. 9:14.8 – Back on track! The light showers lift.
  5. 8:58.5 – A little too fast but doing well!
  6. 9:06.8 – Perfection
  7. 9:19.9 – The rain came back with vengence.
  8. 8:57.1
  9. 8:53.0
  10. 9:32.5  – At this point, it started to pour. Oh and hunger pains started kicking my mental resolve.
  11. 9:36.0 – Thunder started rumbling and a flash of lightening in the distance.
  12. 10:02.0 – I was miserable at this point.  I’m soaked to the bone.  Water sloshed in my shoes.
  13. 9:31.6
  14. 0:54.5

The Results

My goal was to finish the race in 2:00:00 with even splits. My watch recorded 2:00:11.  Officially, I finished in 2:00:38.13.  I think this has been the most even race I’ve ever ran despite the hills.  I’m happy that I managed the race well.  I plan to attempt to run even splits again on a flatter course, the Illinois Half Marathon, at a faster pace, an 8:25 min split.

The Knowledge

I came to the race with sore calves after working on my form on Friday.  I also haven’t been consistent with my workouts.  During the Korteloppet, my entire leg cramped up and sudden cramps since then. Fortunately, I didn’t cramp up but my bum and my hamstrings felt sore. I found a few weaknesses.  My mood goes from great to bad quickly.  I identified my trigger.  It’s the hunger pain I get around mile 9 and mile 10. The weather during the race simply exasperated the situation. (I enjoy rainy training runs by the way.) I need to be proactive and prevent myself from getting hungry during a race.  I either have to keep my stomach full or run the half marathon in under an hour and a half. Another weakness I found are my tense shoulders.  It’s wasted energy.  When I caught myself doing it, I tried to shake it out. Overall, I’m surprised with the fitness I maintained.

I’m happy with the race I ran. I accomplished what I set out to do. I executed what a planned.

The race was everything I expected.  The volunteers at the race were great and were great cheerleaders.  Because I dropped only $40 of my hard earned cash, I thought they will not provide finishers medals.  I was so surprised when they presented each runner with one. I enjoyed the food inside Cary Grove High School.  I look forward to the soft pretzels next year.  This is one of my favorite races I’ve ever ran.

***

An Interestingly Awkward End

Something amusing that happened to me after the race. After being soaked from the pouring rain, I grabbed my gear in my car and headed into the school to change.  The men’s bathrooms had lines so I sought an alternative location to change out of my wet clothes.  I found the wrestling room without its mats.  Nothing was in the room but me and the concrete floor.  As I opened my backpack to swap out my clothes, a woman comes peeked in.  Another woman peeked in and tell her friends a guy is in the room.  Then four women come in and ask me if it’s alright if they change in here because the women’s bathroom has a line.  I told them that I didn’t care but will be quite an interesting story to tell.  They tell me they have nothing good to look at.  We all look at the wall (well I did at least) while we changed. They chatted to each other.  “What a day to run!” one says. The other replied, “It snowed last year.” I threw my two cents in. “I’d rather run in snow than cold rain.”

More women came into the wrestling room.  The first set of women were really cool and respectful about asking me to change in here. The second group of women acted like immature school girls. They freaked out about me being there, encircled their friend who needs to change, and kept on chatting.  The first group did what they needed to do and left.  When the second group started talking about towels and stuff, I hurried my sore self up and got out of there before I’m accused of something.  I’m near sighted anyway and left my glasses in my car.  I couldn’t see anything.

Posted in Race Recap | Leave a comment